There’s nothing traumatic. I got hit on the head with an ax when I was 11 years old and almost died, but it wasn’t sexual or emotional for me, it was just a drag.
“It is immoral to hold an opinion in order to curry another’s favor; mercenary, servile, and against the dignity of human liberty to yield and submit; supremely stupid to believe as a matter of habit; irrational to decide according to the majority opinion, as if the number of sages exceeded the infinite number of fools.”
Giordano Bruno